Why do i think that my ex is responsible for my happiness?

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   “You don’t know what love is
   Until you’ve learned the meaning of the blues
   Until you’ve loved a love you’ve had to lose
   You don’t know what love is”
   
   –Chet Baker
   
   
   Surviving the Break Up
   
   The last phase in getting over a break up is “the reopening”, where i learn to open myself up for new relationships again.I have learned so much in the past months.
   
   I really did a tremendous job:
   
   1.I become a stronger person.
   2.I know myself better.
   3.I have realized that self-love is the vital premise for a happy life.
   4.I gained knowledge of the reasons which led to me break up back then,and managed to distance myself emotionally from it.
   5.Iam able to forgive my Ex and move on.
   6.Iam now ready for a new relationship. Yehaaa!!